I have reached the point where I am tired of waiting. It’s not that I am getting impatient, I just want to move. I’m tired of giving the same answer to anyone who asks how the house is coming along… “still waiting.” I’m tired of coming home to boxes with still more packing to be done. I’m tired of getting letters saying that we have to this and that on our side before closing. Maybe you see it as a lack of patience. Call it what you want, I just don’t want to have to think about it anymore. The stress of trying to pack, wondering if we’ll have to move twice due to our lease being up at the end of this month, and planning the move is starting to get to me. It’s been getting to my wife too.
If anyone wants to gift us a relaxing, child free day at a spa/resort full of massages, good food, and rest, we’ll gladly accept. Other than that, I just pray and hope that we don’t take our stress out on each other or the kids and that closing comes soon so we can move into our new house.
PS… I’m not kidding about the spa/resort…
I understand how you are feeling. It seems like you are in limbo. I have been there. If this helps any (sorry the spa would help more than my thoughts…)once the move is complete you forget about the miserable limbo stage you were in. Kinda like giving birth. Once you have the baby you forget all about that pain that you thought was going to kill you. Take care.